Stop Premature Ejaculation Naturally
Premature ejaculation is one of the most treatable of male sexual dysfunctions a variety of direct and indirect suggestions have been used in its treatment. Many approaches have focused on anxiety reduction as the primary goal, as performance anxiety is the most common cause of a rapid ejaculatory response. Hypnotically assisted desensitization and rehearsal of appropriate sexual responding are applicable to this anxiety-driven disorder. Creative uses of healthy dissociation and distraction can also assist the male in being able to psychologically distance themselves from overarousal.
I usually know what my client is coming in to see me for ahead of time. So, if I want to, I can take the pages out of the book for even stealthier handling. But don't always count on knowing what the client wants to work on. Sometimes a client will come in to see you under false pretenses, offering a reason like weight loss or stress management. They do this to kind of check you out, but then when the client feels comfortable with you, your client might announce that he wants to work on something more personal, such as premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction. Always have those scripts (for premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction) tucked away where you can easily get to them if you find that the client wants to work on these kinds of issues.
The next posthypnotic suggestion was presented most carefully, in a gentle yet emphatic tone of voice, commanding, without seeming to command, the patient's full attention and his full willingness to be obedient to it. This suggestion was a purportedly soundly based medical explanation of the expectable development, on an organic physiological basis, of his total problem. This was the fact that his premature ejaculation, by virtue of body changes from aging processes, would be diametrically changed. The explanation was the following posthypnotic suggestion Do you know, can you possibly realize, can you genuinely understand, that medically all things, everything, even the worst of symptoms and conditions, must absolutely come to an end. But not, but not, I must emphasize, not in the way a layman would understand Do you realize, do you understand, are you in any way aware, that your premature ejaculation will end in a failure, that no matter how long your erection lasts, no matter how...
Dissociation into sexual involvement rather than away from it can be used to heighten arousal and defeat affective and cognitive distractions. The use of the hypnotic focus and suggestion to encourage amplification of sexual arousal, through intense focusing on sexually pleasurable sensations, heightens sexual involvement, particularly in those disorders that require increased sexual arousal, such as the hypoactive sexual desire disorders, erectile difficulties, dyspareunia (when due to inadequate arousal), female orgasmic disorders and retarded ejaculation.
This is a brief metaphor illustrating the concept that we cannot consciously will sexual response, but must allow it to happen and trust the unconscious. It may be used with performance problems such as erectile dysfunction, orgasmic dysfunction, and ejaculatory inhibition. We simply can't will our body to respond. It's kind of like when we've stayed up too late one night, and the harder we try to help ourselves go to sleep, the more wide awake we are. You can't will yourself to perspire. And in a similar way, we can't will an erection, or orgasm, or ejaculation. We simply have to allow it to occur to simply trust our unconscious mind, to know what to do, and how to do it. The more we try to help out, the more we interfere.
As early as 1954, the author used hypnotic induction and the suggestion of catalepsy arm rigidity to one of the patient's arms, in order to demonstrate the control and strength his unconscious mind has over this part of his body. The patient is requested to open his eyes, feel the cataleptic arm with his normal hand (in order to prove that he had achieved this physiological cataleptic rigidity), and is told that this power which he displays over another part of his body could be easily transferred to his penis and premature ejaculations. Then, the patient is asked to close his eyes, told to enter a deeper level of trance, and that normal sensations would return to the rigid arm. The writer describes to the patient the psychology and physiology involved in an erection. First there is the attraction and the foreplay. The writer holds up his index finger, squeezes it tightly and says, Erection is a combination of psychology and physiology. It is a perception of the love object, a...
The Tantric answer is to learn how to stop the ejaculation of semen at the point of orgasm. There is a muscle in the perineum which when contracted will stop the passage of urine or semen through the penis. Strengthening this muscle through many contractions will lead to the control of ejaculation of semen and also, as it is the trigger point for The Base Chakra, will strengthen, give more energy to the Base Chakra.
You can illuminate the entire body to the point that it experiences a sensational orgasm in the entire body, or responds only to one person's touch, or makes it impossible to move the arms or legs (a little hypnotic bondage), or for a man to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating. A woman could suggest to a man, that he will not be able to come until she says the word, or that he will not be able to have an erection for anyone but her. (Not nice, but hey, we chicks are looking for anything that will keep you from straying).
I have worked with a lot of sexually dysfunctional and frustrated people. I know that their thoughts and the way they choose to respond to those thoughts, is the one thing they own. The one thing, that can bring intense happiness or intense sorrow, the one thing that is free and that nobody else can give you, sell you, or choose for you, is your ability to choose your thoughts. When someone who is impotent thinks about having sex, they typically think about the impending failure that is going to happen. If someone has premature ejaculation they think about how disappointed they will be. and usually nothing else If you want to change the outcome you have to give your mind another possibility. If the only possible outcome is failure, then your mind can only find and produce all the responses needed to fulfill that outcome.
We eat, we breathe and we sleep to produce energy and consume it in our physical and mental activities. In addition, sexual intercourse results in a tremendous leakage of energy.The same is true about masturbation and nocturnal ejaculation. When I first started to meditate, I felt sleepy and slept a lot and a lot, but always refreshed when I woke up. Later on, I noticed the Chi Energy converge towards the sick parts of my body to repair it. Now, I have tremendous amount of excessive energy. Every-time I transform the sperm power, I feel that I am charged with more energy.
Premature ejaculation is the most easily treated male sexual dysfunction, with success rates generally in the range of 90 -95 (Stuart & Hammond, 1980) using traditional, behavioral sex therapy techniques. Due to the high effectiveness of the squeeze and stop-start techniques, hypnosis is certainly not the first treatment of choice for premature ejaculation problems. When more validated methods have failed, however, or when the patient does not have a cooperative partner to do behavioral assignments, then hypnosis is extremely helpful. In addition to suggestive hypnosis, uncovering methods such as ideomotor signaling may be used to explore underlying functions or resistances. Physical metaphors, such as creating a glove anesthesia and then suggesting a similar control of sensations in the penis, may likewise be effective. The rather elaborate and complex procedure below was successfully used in a suggestive hypnosis format by Erickson with a compulsive, single patient with premature...
When you have sexual relations, you will feel relaxed and you will achieve erection and ejaculation. When you have sexual relations, you will not block. You will not fear failure. You will feel positive and confident that you will have a firm, lasting erection and have a satisfying ejaculation. Whenever you have sexual relations with a woman, you will have a powerful ejaculation and a complete release of semen from the seminal vessels. woman you will have a very stiff, rigid erection. You will maintain this erection until the woman has climaxed, and only then will you have an ejaculation.
Time distortion may be of particular value in working with acute and intractable pain, in childbirth training, in helping patients endure unavoidable but miserable experiences or suffering (e.g., hospitalization, cancer), in athletics, in treating obesity (making the time between meals seem to go by very rapidly), in treating cravings and withdrawal symptoms, with hypnoanesthesia, and in treating anorgasmia and retarded ejaculation. It may also be of value in conducting a time distorted review of experiences from the past. Time distortion may even be used to have patients conduct internal reviews of learnings in therapy and to review potentially disturbing dreams (Rossi & Cheek, 1988). In working with severe trauma, time distortion may be suggested (in an age regression) so that the traumatic event will be subjectively experienced in a much shorter period of time.
The gastrointestinal system will include ulcers, hyperacidity, constipation, plain old-fashioned bellyaches, heartburn, perhaps gall bladder diseases, and ailments of that nature Under the genitourinary system, such problems as enuresis, impotency, and premature ejaculation would be included, along with others discussed under obstetrics and gynecology.
During Level I (Opening up the Governor and Conception Channels)and Level II (The Fusion of the Five Elements), Chi Energy turns into sperm power. At those Awo stages, sexual desire is very strong. I had increased morning erectior-,and I had nocturnal ejaculation twice a week. When I told Master Chia about it, he was concerned because the sperm lost is Chi Energy lost. What's the use trying to accumulate more Chi Energy by meditation when I lose the sperm energy every three nights So, he taught me RETAINING THE GENERATIVE FORCE FROM DRAINING AWAY (i.e. SEMIMAL KUNG FU), and after a short practice, I didn't have nocturnal ejaculation anymore. Occasionally, as soon as I began to ejaculate in my dream, the sperm was automatically transformed into energy and pulled up into the head-in the dream.
5 Secrets to Lasting Longer In The Bedroom
How to increase your staying power to extend your pleasure-and hers. There are many techniques, exercises and even devices, aids, and drugs to help you last longer in the bedroom. However, in most cases, the main reason most guys don't last long is due to what's going on in their minds, not their bodies.