Ask the question Examples

Presenting Problem Husband says, I get pissed off at my wife every time I come home and see the kids' toys all over the floor. Process Go out just past the point of resolution, look at the ecology, and then ask them a question about ecology. Response What are you going to do with all that time when you see the toys in place -or- How good will your wife feel when you only get pissed off at the kids -or- How good will your wife feel when the room's clean

Container The Nervous System

There are three elements to a Values System. First of all there is the container (the nervous system) in which the values are held. Then there is the environment, in which the person lives. These two determine and effect the values content, which is what we most normally think of as being values. Definition A MEME is a self replicating package of information which tends to propagate itself through a population spreading ideas and concepts. Values are an example of MEME's. The essence of human...

Nominalizations

With minimal restructuring, I have taken various Nominalizations and linked them together for your reading enjoyment. Every (yes every) line as you just trust in the process while you're in trance and allow your intuitions to help you notice new feelings as those feelings come and other feelings may go your behavior improves so the renewed communication in your relationships means you have made many new learnings. because that communication shows respect for those relationships and all your...

Presuppositions

Definition Presuppositions are Linguistic Assumptions and are useful for Recognizing what is assumed by the client's speech and assisting in Creating new I R's for the client. 1. Existence - (Tip-off Nouns) 2. Possibility Necessity - (Tip-off Modal Operators) 3. Cause - Effect - (Tip-off Makes, If then ) 4. Complex Equivalence - (Tip-off Is, Means ) 5. Awareness - (Tip-off Verbs with V, A, K O, G) 6. Time - (Tip-off Verb Tense, Stop, Now, Yet) 7. Adverb Adjective -- (Tip-off An adverb or...

Welcome

Welcome to the NLP Master Practitioner Training. I believe that you are in for a wonderful experience in the next two weeks, one that you will cherish for years to come. Newport Beach is really fun. Your trainers have spent a lot of time here over the years so if you have any questions about the area or what to do while you're here, just ask. We have done everything we can to make sure that your learning environment is the best that it possibly can be. All of us here at the training are...

Wow I feel so much better now since I have decided to do what I want to do

Some behavior he engaged in was related to some internal state _ C. He has much more control of his life now _D. He fixed himself so he should be certified In the following sentences, please identify the major presupposition as well as what else is presupposed 1. If the cat meows, again, I'll have to put him outside. 2. It was her friendly smile that made me walk up and say 'Hey'. 3. If only he had come home on time, the party wouldn't have gotten out of control. 4. People have always given...

Construct a solution for each presupposition

Response When are you sure it's not there 2. Awareness Pace the presupposition, plus switch referential index (you can also add not). Example I didn't realize that upset you. Response What you didn't realize was what else you were communicating your upset. Response I didn't realize how upset you were. 3. Possibility If Modal Operator of Impossibility, remember it's can do the process of not. Response How can you not stop drinking If Modal Operator of Necessity, chain it to Modal Operator of...

Nlp Communication Model

Respect for the other person's model of the world. 2. Behavior and change are to be evaluated in terms of context, and Ecology. 3. Resistance in a client is a Sign of a lack of rapport. (There are no resistant clients, only inflexible communicators. Effective communicators accept and utilize all communication presented to them.) 4. People are not their behaviors. (Accept the person change the behavior.) 5. Everyone is doing the best they can with the resources they have available. (Behavior is...

Ratchet Method Compulsion Andreas

TRAINING Universal Training Tad 's Training Training The 4-Mat ADVANCED NLP Modeling The Modeling ADVANCED Three elements that make a Compulsion The Learning An Intervention For Allergy Model - Using Neurological For Getting Rid Of A Releasing attachments and or manifesting an Expanding MEDITATION ON THE Hiolani (From FAMILY THERAPY Using Time Line Therapy and 4-STEP SWISH 1. Chunking - If chunk too big, lose people if too small, boredom. 2. Patterns - Sequence the teaching in the same order...

Deidentification Pattern

This pattern is useful for going beyond limiting and therefore false identifications, usually in the form of a CEq. Complex equivalence's are the language construction of identification. With a slight adjustment of the language you can use this easily on yourself therapeutically or as a meditation if you continue to repeat steps 3 through 6. 1. Elicit the identification in the form of a Complex Equivalence. Listen for 2. Pace and feedback the complex equivalence. So, you are_. 3. Is that all...

Pause at improper places

Can you please pass out pause the flyers Incomplete sentences The sentence is left unfinished Would you rather go into a trance now or 19. Utilization Utilize all that happens or is said by mentioning what is verifiable. Client says, I am not sold. You say, That's right you are not sold, yet, because you haven't asked the one question that will have you totally and completely sold.

Unspecified Verbs

Tag Question A question added after a statement, designed to displace resistance. 11. Lack of Referential Index A phrase that does not pick out a specific portion of the listener's experience. One can, you know 12. Comparative Deletions Unspecified Comparison Where the comparison is made and it is not specified as to what or whom it was made. And it's more or less the right thing. 13. Pacing Current Experience Where client's experience verifiable, external is described in a way which is...